Is your intimate relationship/ marriage holding you back in your business or career? Take this inventory to find out…
Answer Yes or No to each of these questions.
- I feel 100% supported by my partner
- I love that we share common core values
- I know my partner’s needs and seek to fill them
- I know my partner seeks to fill my needs and it feel authentic and healthy when we support each other
- I feel completely trusted by my partner
- The connection we have is very sacred to me
- I know my partner respects who I am and what I do in the world
- He/She loves sharing about me and my life with their friends and family
- My partner takes a sincere interest in my work and in my passions
- I know he/she respects me
- I know that no matter how many business risks I take… she/ he will still stand by me
- I know he/she trusts my decision making skills
- I know my partner has my back no matter what
- I trust him/her with everything
- There is no part of me that holds back or fears the reaction of my partner
- I believe our boundaries are healthy
- I love how he/she acts in public
- I trust him/her with my brand, my business and my reputation
- I respect my partner for what they do in the world and who they are
- I love supporting my partner and watching him/her shine
- I love celebrating my wins because what I build benefits us both
- I am driven to succeed more, and more, knowing that I will get to SHARE my wealth, success, happiness, prosperity with my partner
- I trust my partner’s friends
- I connect well with them and feel respected by my partner’s friends
- I trust my partner’s family
- I connect well with them and feel respected by my partner’s family
Now let’s look at your results….
If you answered NO to any of the above questions… your relationship is holding back your happiness, success and fulfillment at some level.
You have probably known this and have sought out other coping mechanisms and support to push yourself and your business to a level of success where you could find the time and energy to fix the situation.
You have also probably had thoughts of self justification and reasoning that it would be more painful to leave than to stay.
There may be a part of you that has replaced the missing fulfillment in your relationship for the fulfillment you feel in your work and in your business.
Clients often ask me… “So what does a bad or draining relationship really cost my success?”
Maybe a story can help show what it cost a fellow Entrepreneur. One of my clients who operated a 12M company with operations in multiple countries had an opportunity to expand his brand with investors and a major distribution partner that would have exploded his success. He had worked so hard to arrive at this very point. I noticed him missing appointments, hemming and hawing on getting back to the board and basically stalling. I called him on it. “What is up? This is the deal we have been waiting for!” He shared that he didn’t realize he would grow so fast and thought he had more time. “More time for what?” He shared how he had been planning a divorce and was looking for the right time to do it. “Oh my goodness. There is no ‘right time’ to ever make that move.” He and I opened up the pandora’s box of his marriage which he had hoped ‘she would leave first’. The underlying fear he had was that she would take half of it all and maybe more. He had been mentally holding back his success for fear of sharing his success with someone who he felt hold back with. In the stalling pattern, the deal fell through and he lost the chance he had been so hoping for. That hesitance, worry and second guessing cost him hundreds of millions. By the way, he never has gotten the divorce, nor has he helped his relationship go right. We can become addicted to problems, to being mistreated and to finding reasons why we cannot succeed. But I know that is not your story.
People can feel when a couple in business is stressed. Customers, employees, business partners, investors and especially seasoned coaches can sense when something is awry. Prosperity can be held at arms length when we carry discord and unrest in our minds.
Is it possible to fixing a relationship before it is too late?
Yes! Knowing the right steps to take to restore, reignite and solidify a hurt relationship is crucial. Most of us talk to others and tell friends or family members of the pain we are experiencing in a relationship. We can do this in an attempt to try and gain insight from others and hopefully some help in making a clear decision. When what we end up doing is recruiting an army against the relationship ever working. We back ourselves into a corner and find the only decision we can make to save face is to bail. I have definite strategies to help couples stop this harmful recruiting pattern and start healing the relationship from the inside out.
How do I know a relationship can be repaired?
When I sit with a couple or listen to them over the phone, I listen for certain words, body language and gestures that tell me they are still into each other. I can sense when it is totally one-sided or when both are really wanting to make a go of it. I listen for ‘claiming’, ‘passion’, and look for energy between them. If the spark is in there… if I can make them look at each other with a twinkle and sly smile, then I know I have something to work with. I will often ask one if they can tell me about the day they met or their first date. Then I sit back and go on the journey with them.
If there is joy in remembering, laughter, a hand hold and lean into the other… I know the relationship will weather the storms. With proper communications strategies and ways to honor each other, use of boundaries and renewed feelings of trust and respect the relationship will flourish.
Now… on the other hand… if there is nothing… no passion, no lean in, no subtle eye glance, no fun stories… I know the next steps may look painful but they will create freedom for each of them and most of all respect – self respect.
All of what I describe here I know personally. I stayed in a marriage too long after trying for over 10 years to make it all work. I thought I had stayed for all the right reasons. I understand completely. That is how I know the pain, the waste of time and energy and the financial drain bad relationships bring to our lives, our careers, and our businesses.
Now, the next step is in your court.
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Tina Marie Jones-St.Cyr is a World Class Relationship Strategist.
She is a corporate trainer, executive coach, and keynote speaker who shares tools, strategy and common sense approaches to increasing communication, developing a sense of receptivity, building trust and respect and living a life worth our time here on the planet.
Her no-nonsense approaches delight her audiences and connect her to the hearts of those who want to get out of their own way, and help make relationships go right.
Tina Marie Jones-St.Cyr is the Founder of the Human Dynamics Alliance, an organization who’s mission is to ignite authentic human relations and promote true evolution of humanity by creating large discussion forums for the world’s leaders to communicate in meaningful and courageous conversations.
She is the Creator of The Freedom Framework for Sales & Leadership, Author of Abolish Your Inner Saboteur™, The Focus System, Building Energetic Teams, and The Deep Dive Business Accelerator System. She has been retained by major corporations worldwide, government institutions, universities, small businesses and entrepreneurial forums to train their teams and executives on transforming self doubt, evolving relating skills and mastering energetic leadership. She has won numerous awards for her unique views on leadership and human energy in the workforce. Tina Marie leads the Houston Mastermind, Entrepreneur Night and Energy Circle groups as well as provides corporate training and coaching both in person and virtually through the web. For more information, email her offices at firstname.lastname@example.org or call her offices at 888-721-4204.
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